2022.01.21 11:53 BDawgJackson Style
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2022.01.21 11:53 poopy-buthole Out on an adventure
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2022.01.21 11:53 SunnyK33t My goodest girl has a brain tumor 😭. Hugs to the boxers of Reddit from us.
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2022.01.21 11:53 Ler-Fro0 Katrina Jade
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2022.01.21 11:53 FOUR_STOCKED Need recommendations for a smartwatch
I'm looking for something that has decent battery life, is good looking, of good quality, and is able to sync and download songs from my youtube music account so that I can go for a run without needing to take my phone with me. Any ideas?
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2022.01.21 11:53 Feelsthelove The way my nails on my middle fingers grow
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2022.01.21 11:53 AestheticZeta I went to an interview and got publicly shamed for having poor social skills.
I apologize if this type of post isn't allowed but I wanted to share something that recently happened.
For some background, I have absolutely terrible social skills not like I just feel socially anxious but actually I am terrible at talking with people and I avoid it. It's been something I've been aware of all my life (for example I had a teacher who used to mock me in middle/high school by nicknaming me chief no talk because I just didn't really talk to people) but have never been able to make any sort of lasting change. In college I ended up getting recommended for a few free psychology sessions through my university's healthcare plan and was diagnosed with avoidant personality disorder and was recommended to a specialist to possibly test for other things but I wasn't willing to pay out of pocket for it and I already had enough going on so I left it as is. After finishing college and failing to find any decent job my stepfather eventually stepped in and recommended that I go into IT or coding (which he's done most his life) and offered to help me study, after getting my basic certifications I went and started a relatively low paying entry level job that hired me almost right away just to get experience and have been working it up until now, which brings us to yesterday.
Having more experience and some more certifications I started applying for more decent jobs and after getting callback from a hiring manager of one of them I landed an interview with what advertised itself as a midsized company located pretty close to me. I arrived at their location, where I was given a fresh blank application by their receptionist. I attempted to tell her that I had already filled out an application and that's why I was called in in the first place but she told me it was company policy to have people redo their application when they arrived for record keeping purposes so I sat down next to what I assume were the two other candidates for the job in their lobby area and started filling it out.
The last section asked for "4 work references no family or friends". This hadn't been on initial application I had filled out so I just left it blank and turned it back in to the receptionist who started flipping through it and stopped me from walking away telling me I needed to fill out the reference section. I told her that I didn't have any references which seemed to actually make her upset. I was told that if I didn't list any references then I wouldn't be allowed to go forward with the interview. I once again explained that I didn't have any and that if they were worried about work experience they could check my certifications which were all listed or call the company directly and ask if I worked there. She then said that it was impossible that I didn't have at least one reference and to at least put down my current bosses info, so I wrote down his first name and what I thought was his number, this also seemed to make her upset and she started raising her voice and trying to accuse me of just wasting her time and that I had to have my bosses last name and personal number. I told her I didn't that I only talked to him through our teams chat and that I had worked remotely for the last year at which point she started grilling me about past jobs (most of which were just part time or retail) and how I could have gone my entire life up until now without making any contacts.
By that point I was starting to get anxious and couldn't really get a word in and the receptionist said that if I truly did have such poor social skills I didn't really deserve to work there anyway because I would just bring the mood in the office down. So I just said "sorry I didn't realize I would need references I think at this point it's better if I just decline this interview I don't think I'll be a good match" and started to walk away with the receptionist literally yelling at me that I was a time waster as I did.
I understand that working at a place like that wouldn't be good for me anyway but I still hate that things like this are just common and expected at most jobs. I am not a social person I simply do my job and then go home I don't think I've ever been rude to someone that tries to talk with me (I've been called polite and formal before) but I also don't go out of my way to learn about people. I hate that this is such an expected thing when it has no relevance to my work.
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2022.01.21 11:53 Comfortable_Laugh_84 fussy
My daughter is super fussy at night. Even after I feed her and change her, she cries and cries and cries. She sleeps during the day, I wake her up at about 11-12 to feed her or she wakes up and after that she just will not go back to sleep, I tried switching her formula because one was making her super gassy. The gas seems to have resolved but she’s still fussy. She’ll be a week old tomorrow, I just feel useless not knowing what to do or how to soothe her. I’m a first time young mom and it’s been hard. I love her so much I just wanna be the best mother to her any advice ?
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2022.01.21 11:53 Kristianasre The joy of Christmas, 1977. The shirt matched the tree.
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2022.01.21 11:53 emo-loser I get to talk to a new therapist next week? What to talk about?
Oh wow so this came through earlier than expected! My doctor referred me to speak to a psychologist through the province, so I was aware that there would be a waiting list but I’m pleasantly surprised that someone will speak to me next week!
For some backstory, I’ve told my doctor all about my depression, ADHD, anxiety, as well as my abusive situation that I’m living in.
So I’m excited to speak to the new therapist, but I have no idea where to start lol 🤷♂️
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2022.01.21 11:53 FrontpageWatch2020 [#23|+20283|331] Dog panicking if something bad happening to his friend Cat [r/AnimalsBeingBros]
2022.01.21 11:53 natkr7 Νίκη Κεραμέως: Τέρμα η ετήσια άδεια μιας μέρας για την πραγματοποίηση Γ.Σ των εκπαιδευτικών
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2022.01.21 11:53 Odd_Coat_8276 How have you “unplugged” or changed your life because of antiwork? All ideas welcome.
I believe in antiwork, but I understand that I need income in a country (USA) with little safety nets. While I believe it is impossible to 100% unplug from these systems unless they are dismantled, I believe that we can reduce our dependence. This can come in the form of being choosing to be childless, gardening, reducing consumption, etc.
Now, I would LOVE to hear everyone’s ideas.
How have you “unplugged” or reduced your dependence on the current oppressive systems?
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2022.01.21 11:53 Bonus1Fact LOL: CNN is being ridiculed following the left-wing news network’s new job postings seeking “reality” reporters to help combat “misinformation."
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2022.01.21 11:53 Whalemusic16 Is Royal appropriate for a 13 year old?
I notice that there is a sale going on right now, and he has expressed interest in the game before, he asked about it last summer, and it didn’t feel right at the time (Gym teacher was the main reason) so, we made a compromise and I let him get strikers, since that seemed fine at the time. I would say that he has matured a lot since then, and nothing on the parents guide seems like something he has not seen before, but I’m still kind of torn on it.
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2022.01.21 11:53 Dreamer1926 777-800EER (extra extended range)
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2022.01.21 11:53 zhumao Epidemic of insanity strikes America’s leaders
2022.01.21 11:53 PollyB4545 Goodmorning! Thanks for all the flattering feedback, its tough to find cross dressing friends IRL so this community has been amazing, giving me the vibe that I'm not alone :)
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2022.01.21 11:53 Independent_Glass295 I tried to get over someone by dating someone else. It didn't work and now I feel trapped
I'm probably going to delete this account soon, I just need to get this off my chest.
I started college at the beginning of the year and have had the time of my life. I like my classes, am meeting great people, joined some great clubs, going out a lot, and overall having a great time. I feel like I've established myself really well and have a lot of people who know and like me.
In high school I had a lot of people who I knew and got on with, but wasn't the type to get invited to party's or see people much outside of school. In the first week alone I made great memories and had a blast while meeting a bunch of people who I really connected with. I got into a great routine and regularly balance out studying with seeing friends and partying. Since then, a lot of this has been at risk of stopping.
In the first week, I met this person at another accommodation and we really got on well. They stuck in my head for the rest of the week and I ended up asking her out the weekend of that week. They said yes and I met her at her accommodation. We went out to dinner and had a really nice time. I asked her if They wanted to do it again and They said yes.
The next week, they texted me and asked if I wanted to do anything over the weekend. We went on a nice walk down by this canal area with a forest next to it and just chatted. When we got back to the outside of her accommodation. They said that they really wanted to be ready for a relationship but wasn't ready for one (which I get considering it was the first week of school and people still needed time to get adjusted). They said there wasn't any problem with me and that they would still be interested in seeing me in a friendship capacity.
Normally when things don't go well romantically for me, I'll get down for maybe a day or so and then move on from it. But I could not get over her. I kept myself busy but kept coming back to thinking about her.
About two weeks after we went out on the walk, I asked her if they wanted to catchup and grab coffee since we hadn't seen each other in a while (I wrote that I would understand if they was busy just to give her a way out if they wanted). They took the way out and said they were busy but that they would see me at this club event (we were both apart of the same club) happening in two weeks.
At that point I realized it was over and I had to just get on with it. But for the life of me I still couldn't. I kept going on, meeting friends, doing school work, but they stayed constantly on my mind when I wasn't doing something else.
The next week I wrote and recorded something summing up my feelings for her (trying to be as explicit as possible that I was not expecting any outcome from her) and sent it to her. I needed to get this off my chest and it helped a bit. They sent a recording back thanking me for it and said they needed time to think about and write a response. They responded and still said they were not ready for a relationship.
Since then, our interactions have been awkward and they don't seem to want to say much to me. I understand why and have just tried to take the hints by not speaking much to her anymore. I still thought about her but decided to stop trying to reach her as I thought they made themselves pretty clear.
At the same club we were apart of, there was another person who I started getting hints that they liked me. At first I didn't try anything because I was still stuck on the other person. But after a bit I decided to see if I was interested in the other person and move on. We started talking more frequently and ended up going on a date to this market. From there on, we kept going out until they became my partner (the first person I've been in a relationship with).
We've had a great time together and gone out, watched TV, and just naturally progressed as a relationship. I stopped thinking about the other person and got very comfortable where I am at. Most of this was throughout a break in between semesters and the relationship has been going on for about 2 months.
In the week before classes started up however, all they wanted to do was lie in bed for virtually the entire day. They had been feeling stressed about their course before and sometimes I needed to act as a literal a figurative shoulder to cry on. But it got to the point where they could not be without me without wanting to immediately come back to me as soon as we were free. They haven't even been able to sleep on their own without e or they will start crying and stressing.
This has stopped me from getting to go out with friends as they start returning and every time I've offered they always decline to go out with others. We occasionally go on walks but I'm now just looking for any opportunity to get out of my room. They don't like clubbing and don't hang out with other people that much.
All through these past 2 weeks, I've gone back to thinking about the first person I went out with and realize I'm just going down a dangerous path. I would love if my partner wants to come out with me and hang out with other people, but I can't stay in a relationship knowing every time I leave they breakdown.
They've had a bad week and I feel bad about this, but I think I'm planning of breaking this relationship off. I really want to stay civil as they and I both interact with similar people at the club and I just generally them as a person. But I can't put myself on hold for them and the more I keep this up, the more I keep thinking about the first person.
At the time of writing this, my partner is out but coming over soon. I'm not sure if they will be my partner after this, but I just really want to make sure they are ok and able to be good on their own.
TDLR; Feeling trapped in a relationship but i don't want to add more problems to my partner
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2022.01.21 11:53 horrornewsbot Switch Version of ‘Dying Light 2’ Delayed From Next Month’s Launch
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2022.01.21 11:53 FrontpageWatch2020 [#261|+18579|839] Original 2007 recalled toy for the beads having a coating that when digested broke down into the date rape drug GHB. Recalled after kids started falling into comas. [r/interestingasfuck]
2022.01.21 11:53 TradedMedia Sold | Hotel Address: 2570 Texas Highway 121, Euless, Texas 76039, United States Address: 2570 Texas Highway... Asset Type: Hotel Closed: 2 days ago Brokers: Christopher (Chris) Gomes , Allan Miller Note: The Hotel property located in Texas The deal closed 2 days ago . The brokers of the de...
2022.01.21 11:53 iraragorri I took my most attractive legacy heir and 3 of her daughters to Vladify the family. Surprisingly, the 3 of them speak in male voice. Which one should I keep alive? Descriptions in pictures
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